I will email you a personalized thank you.

When I regain contact, I will tell Kai and Phoebe that you donated money to help them and I will tell them about you (to the extent that I know you/you tell me abou yourself).

When I regain video (or personal) contact with Kai and Phoebe, I will make a video of me telling them about you and your helping them. They are naturally appreciative (and cute) kids, so I don't need to prompt them to say Thank You.

As soon as I regain video or personal contact with Kai and Phoebe, we will make a creative thank you for you. Kai loves to make up stories and Phoebe gets inspired by Kai, so I can't say exactly what this will be (other than *probably* it will be in a video), but it will be made just for you.

If you live in the US, Canada, UK, France, Spain, Greece, Ireland, Italy or the Netherlands (or any other EU country if the court acts reasonably) within 2 years after I regain my visitation rights with the kids, we will personally visit you on one of our 4 vacations per year to say thank you. (As a side benefit, I can also take the kids to have new fun adventures exploring the region around you).

Within 6 months of regaining visitation rights (or within 6 months of gaining custody if you live outside the EU, US or Canada and the German courts aren't beig reasonable about location), we will visit you for a personal thank you. Alternatively, you (depending on distance, 1 or 2 persons) can visit us and I'll pay the flight cost.