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A PLEA FROM SYD, KYD AND ALFIE FOR A HELPING HAND
Here, I sit in the last chance saloon with everything crossed that this campaign gets me and my 11-year-old son, Jo back to the tropics. Of course, we must take our rescue staffie Alfie with us too. He is family. I never thought I would launch a campaign to ask for help. I have tried so many ways including publishing a book, yet here I am with cap in hand.
I have always been an adventurous soul and spent years exploring and working in the tropics. All my free time would be spent visiting wild places, jungles, islands and mountains. As an animal lover I helped rescued animals and promoted the importance of protecting the wildlife as well as campaigning against animal exploitation.
In January 2012 I had found what I was looking for. The perfect place and the perfect partner. After working hard for over ten years I had managed to buy a house in Vientiane, the capital of Laos. I had been with my dream woman for eight years. Our son Jo was three and Eugene my son from a previous marriage was 13.This was where I was going to spend the rest of my life living in the place I loved with the people I loved. Or so I thought!
Just three months later I was in Blackpool, northern England. I had lost my job, my house, my car, my mother, my wife and my health. I had been diagnosed with inoperable stage four cancer and given a maximum life expectancy of just six months. Even worse, I was alone with my two children aged 14 and 4 who had no one in the world except their dying father. I couldn’t die because my kids needed me. They had no one else. I cut out all processed food and survived on organic fruit and veg juices. I was extremely sick and should have been in bed but that was impossible. I had to cook, clean, wash clothes, take my children to school. There was no one else.
In November 2017 much to everyone’s astonishment I was given the all clear. I was happy but homesick for my tropical lifestyle. Surviving on benefits in Blackpool was a safe but lonely existence. I needed to be living a wild and free life once more. I asked my ex if she would return some money for the house, I had bought but she refused. Therefore, I opted to write a book to get a film deal or a bestseller. The book was published late 2019 and has sold about 2000 copies with positive feedback. Alas, I have not made any dosh yet but always dream of a lucky break.
MONEY
It is not so easy to estimate the amount of money required these lockdown days as all costs are now vague. I have put a target of £25,000 to get us through the first year. This seems a lot but after flights for me and Jo, flights and agents at both ends for Alfie, mandatory medical insurance for $100,000 for me and my kid, house rental and an international school for Jo I feel we should have about £5000 remaining for food and living expenses. Once the rules, regulations, costs of flights, transportation costs and agents fees for Alfie become clear then I will have a better idea and update.
Understand that I have not started this campaign for wealth because I will be financially worse off leaving state benefits, free education for my son and the national health service in the UK. However, if this campaign is successful I will continue writing my books, write vegan guides to places we visit to sell as e-books, open an online Thai Language course-teaching reading writing and speaking and possibly launch a Patreon account. Anything is possible. By the way, I used to teach western management teams the Thai language so I am not as daft as I look. lol
I must stress that I have no dreams of becoming a rich man with a big house and a flash motor. I will be as 'happy as Larry' living a basic safe lifestyle with my son and dog. My son will not only get his school education but will learn in the land of' look and see' with his dad. I will teach him about the rainforests, the oceans, the fabulous animals and amazing plants emphasizing that we must do everything we can to protect the planet and the animals.
Not only that but we will both spend time volunteering in the many animal sanctuaries out there. So by helping us get home you will also be helping the planet and the animals too. My elder son Eugene is now a man. He has finished university and is 23 years old. He has duel nationality so with his Thai passport he can fly out there anytime and help with us or work for a company.
WHAT I CAN DO FOR YOU
Well, I am a giver not a taker and want to offer you a valuable service in return for your help.
There is a system of rewards that are offered to all who donate. So have a look. I have loads of experience, knowledge and contacts in this part of the world and can really help you with whatever you need.
Thanks, in advance and if you cannot afford to donate then please do us a favour and share.
Love Syd, Kyd and Alfie xx

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Finally my TED Talk
SPONSORS
Sponsor One The EPC MAN
Sponsor Two Southside SPCA
Sponsor Number Three
The Death and Life of Psycho Syd
Thanks to my friend William for wanting to sponsor my book
If you would like to sponsor the dream and get a link on the homepage and feature in each weekly video then let me know x
I am an ambassador for Blake Mill artisan shirts- You will get a 20% discount off all shirts when you enter the code SYDKYDHOME
I hope you enjoyed that and if you wish to donate that would be ace. If not then please share to help me achieve the impossible once more.
Much love Syd, Kyd and Alfie xx
P.S. You are welcome to contact me and I will answer any question you ask?
Perks
For between £5 and £24 you can be part of the dream. You can join this incredible journey from your armchair A weekly video will have you on the edge of your seat as you explore the back of beyond with us. Jungles, mountains, remote islands and animal sanctuaries. Even before we fly back home you will be part of the planning as we arrange visas and flights and transportation for Alfie. Once we arrive view the house we rent, Jo's school and the local markets. So you are living the dream with us and maybe it will inspire you to either visit us for a holiday or give up the rat race and retire on the beach with us. x
For between £25 and £49 you will have an absolute bargain. Not only will you be part of the dream by getting the weekly videos but I will help you volunteer at an animal sanctuary in the tropics. Elephants, Gibbons, cats, dogs etc. This really is value for money because I arrange everything for you. Visas and accommodation and food. In many cases free in return for helping the voiceless. You can stay for weeks, months or even years. I will personally speak with the rescue on your behalf. Now if you searched online you would find many organisations charging hundreds of pounds but I ask for nothing. I will advise on flights, transportation and answer any questions you may have.In fact to have an experienced volunteer with contacts who understands the culture and is fluent in the language is priceless. Looking forward to making your dream come true too.
For between £50 and £99 not only do you get a weekly video and an opportunity to volunteer at an animal sanctuary but I will help you plan a once in a lifetime holiday in the tropics. Maybe you can join me on an adventure or just chill on an idyllic island for a couple of weeks. I will sort it and get you bargain prices. Just imagine living in a beach bungalow on a white sandy beach for less than £200 for a fortnight. I know the score and have the contacts. If you are seriously thinking of taking a break in the tropics then this reward will save you a fortune. Probably hundreds of pounds. And if you are vegan I will arrange all your vegan meals for you. Of course you will get a free guide of things to do and see, restaurants and bars and anything else that will help to make your once in a life time adventure perfect. Making you happy makes me happy. Also, I will design wellness retreats, meditation, juicing, detox and yoga. You are welcome to join at cost. Recharge your mind and body.
For £100 plus you get the lot. Video, volunteer opportunity, holiday planning plus the advice on how to retire or start a business. I am your man out there. I work for you. Get you the best deals. Make sure you don't get ripped off. Advise on visas, buying a house freehold, renting a house, insurance, driving licences, buying a car, flying pets, schools for your kids, homeschooling. Whatever you need you can feel secure that you have an honest friend out there who will help you live the dream too. I can't wait to help.
For £250 plus you will be an official sponsor of the dream. You will get a segment on each weekly video showing your products plus a link to your website I will wear a logo and discuss and show your product or service. There is a catch though. Your product must be Eco-friendly Wealthy individuals who love the dream and want to get Syd, Kyd and Alfie back home are more than welcome to become an official sponsor and I am happy to promote whatever cause you like. Maybe a charity. Of course at this level you also get the video, opportunity to volunteer and help with planning a holiday. I am really looking forward to working together with any sponsors. Loads of love
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For between £5 and £24 you can be part of the dream. You can join this incredible journey from your armchair A weekly video will have you on the edge of your seat as you explore the back of beyond with us. Jungles, mountains, remote islands and animal sanctuaries. Even before we fly back home you will be part of the planning as we arrange visas and flights and transportation for Alfie. Once we arrive view the house we rent, Jo's school and the local markets. So you are living the dream with us and maybe it will inspire you to either visit us for a holiday or give up the rat race and retire on the beach with us. x
For between £25 and £49 you will have an absolute bargain. Not only will you be part of the dream by getting the weekly videos but I will help you volunteer at an animal sanctuary in the tropics. Elephants, Gibbons, cats, dogs etc. This really is value for money because I arrange everything for you. Visas and accommodation and food. In many cases free in return for helping the voiceless. You can stay for weeks, months or even years. I will personally speak with the rescue on your behalf. Now if you searched online you would find many organisations charging hundreds of pounds but I ask for nothing. I will advise on flights, transportation and answer any questions you may have.In fact to have an experienced volunteer with contacts who understands the culture and is fluent in the language is priceless. Looking forward to making your dream come true too.
For between £50 and £99 not only do you get a weekly video and an opportunity to volunteer at an animal sanctuary but I will help you plan a once in a lifetime holiday in the tropics. Maybe you can join me on an adventure or just chill on an idyllic island for a couple of weeks. I will sort it and get you bargain prices. Just imagine living in a beach bungalow on a white sandy beach for less than £200 for a fortnight. I know the score and have the contacts. If you are seriously thinking of taking a break in the tropics then this reward will save you a fortune. Probably hundreds of pounds. And if you are vegan I will arrange all your vegan meals for you. Of course you will get a free guide of things to do and see, restaurants and bars and anything else that will help to make your once in a life time adventure perfect. Making you happy makes me happy. Also, I will design wellness retreats, meditation, juicing, detox and yoga. You are welcome to join at cost. Recharge your mind and body.
For £100 plus you get the lot. Video, volunteer opportunity, holiday planning plus the advice on how to retire or start a business. I am your man out there. I work for you. Get you the best deals. Make sure you don't get ripped off. Advise on visas, buying a house freehold, renting a house, insurance, driving licences, buying a car, flying pets, schools for your kids, homeschooling. Whatever you need you can feel secure that you have an honest friend out there who will help you live the dream too. I can't wait to help.
For £250 plus you will be an official sponsor of the dream. You will get a segment on each weekly video showing your products plus a link to your website I will wear a logo and discuss and show your product or service. There is a catch though. Your product must be Eco-friendly Wealthy individuals who love the dream and want to get Syd, Kyd and Alfie back home are more than welcome to become an official sponsor and I am happy to promote whatever cause you like. Maybe a charity. Of course at this level you also get the video, opportunity to volunteer and help with planning a holiday. I am really looking forward to working together with any sponsors. Loads of love
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