Firstly, thank you Naida who assisted in creating this fundraiser. It's taken courage to finally open up publicly & share my story.  

Community! We Need Your Support!

If you know me, you know I'm a fighter, a foster child turned world traveler, a survivor, a resilient soul thats overcome the unthinkable. A single mother to a 5 year old, focused on conscious parenting and ending generational trauma. A health mentor, who spent the past several years through a cancer journey traveling the world for the cure, healing and sharing that experience online to help others.

Currently we are going through a difficult time recovering after a night break-in while traveling in Thailand, during which I was sexually assaulted left our lives changed forever. After arriving back home, I suffered one of many seizures for the first time. At the hospital, they discovered I had a healing brain injury/fractured skull and was diagnosed high risk for brain aneurysm with stressed induced seizures. 

I tried to recover on my own, but its been impossible to catch up, let of all maintain daily life. With the Emergency funds I had to spend I didnt have. I need support temporarily so I can catch up on this mound of responsibilities and financial difficulties due to what happened. I can't keep fighting this battle alone. 

The toll this has taken on my mental health has been the hardest part of all. Prior to this happening, my career and businesses focused on work with others, coaching, social media, sales and so on. After what happened as you can imagine, these businesses have extremely difficult to maintain while going through surgeries, seizures, depression, and rediscovering who I am after what happened, and all while being alone overseas raising a tiny human.

Being a single mother of a 5 year old with no family, every expense, housing, school, visas, and medical care falls solely on me. I never could have expected something like this. Despite everything, I've kept things semi stable, even though we do live uncomfortably in a single room and I've sold everything of value we own here which has devastated me so much, as well as my daughter 🥹

With hospital bills, surgery & living expenses while in recovery, we have depleted everything I've saved these past few years. 

** Most Prevalent Needs: ** (any donation makes a difference, even if it's just "grab groceries" you gift us)

• $2,000 - Assistance to get outside support and tutoring for my daughter. I had to pull her out of schooling and nannying because I couldn't afford it- free school isn't available & Without having help with her, its impossible to work, have client calls and most importantly basic functioning mentally / healing
• $1,600 - Basic Living Expenses per Month I'm often struggling to pay as the mental health journey is up and down. 
• $6,000+ to Pay off medical bills past due that werent put on credit cards
• $400/mo to maintain current treatments, therapy, testing, medical screenings/bloodwork & observations while in recovery 
• $2,500 to Clear urgent debts owed to various loans I owe people, I took post incident to pay for immediate needs such as housing, medical treatments, my daughters school and so on.
• $48,000 in debt from credit cards used to cover medical treatment/surgery after this happened. (minimal insurance/overseas, most was paid out of pocket and I spent my lifesavings before maxing out my cards. Since those lapsed, I have debt collectors threatening to sue me/freeze accounts(as of August 2025, I need support(legal aid) if you know anyone) 

To be fully transparent, with the battle I'm facing I put the minimal of whats needed, there are so many things that could happen to ease my heart and focus. 

Our living expenses from day to day were sometimes but not always covered by my facebook monetization,  however its check to check with nothing left over for my daughters school, medical treatment or catching up on the debt. At this point, due to not having help with my child, my income dropped to under $300 a month despite trying as hard as I can with the time I have. 

While I do make money from content, my monetized page gets frozen any time I attempt to share my fundraiser, fb thinks I'm hacked. Worst possible scenerio. I've explained and they don't care.  Struggling, I've been mainly repurposing years of mental health and cancer content that could support some of our living costs, but not under these circumstances with severity of this. 

Every day I’m drowning and fighting to heal at the same time. It is really difficult to maintain balance especially with the financial aspect and lack of support over my head constantly. I've silently sat with this for too long of a time before asking for help, thinking life would return as it was, but it only continued to be an unexpected and unpredictable uphill battle.

** I want to add a note this nov 10th, if friends prefer direct donation(no fee/pay delay) please DM** every dollar is life changing 🥹

*** also, SHARING THIS FUNDRAISER would mean the world to me ***

- I only ask to not use my Full name & also please do not share personal details of ours , due to the nature of what happened. Despite having a huge following on social media, I don't want the public to know as nothing online goes away these days. I don't want my daughter to have to deal with it one day. 

 - I've always built my life around being a person of service to others and pray in this moment it will finds it way back to us so I can focus on healing, get back in action, and most importantly, be able to soon pay it forward again.  

Your support will make a difference in our lives and we thank you in advance. We are so deeply grateful.

Last updated: December 29th, 2025