Sean and I have been together for almost 10 years, and we got engaged at the MN Renaissance festival in 2009, since then we have wanted to get married but life has made that difficult, Sean has terrible asthma, and gets pneumonia and bronchitis very bad, very often usually at the same time, Sean is a concrete mason and works so hard every day regardless! Things the last few years have been really hard but we are trying our best to stay positive, but in the end we just really need a little support! Three years ago Sean's son was taken to live in Thailand by his mother's family and Sean had no say in the matter, and it was devastating, and now that his son is in MN again it's a battle to see him, we don't even know if he can be a part of our wedding, so Sean has been struggling to get right for his son! Two years ago Sean had a terrible accident and had to have 18 stitches placed from the tip of his thumb to his wrist, he had to go through physical therapy, and it's still not the same, but during this he wasn't able to work and had to make the decision to switch jobs, concrete is very hard on your body! so he took a huge pay cut for his health and worked drywall for a few years, but that only made our situation harder, and I work with special needs children so I don't make much money, but I love my job, but have seriously considered a job change due to our situation! This year Sean got a job offer from the concrete union in hawaii, we thought it was a miracle! We also found out the MN Renaissance festival was going to be moving location, so we decided to get married on the stage Sean proposed on before we left for Hawaii and it would be gone forever, but our families aren't the supportive type so planning our wedding is on our own, and Sean's health isn't doing well, and Sean made the choice to go back to working concrete so we had more money regardless of his health, but he isn't getting the hours he needs at work, and I have been struggling with depression for years and over the last few years I'm sure it's the stress but my depression has almost crippled me, especially with the extreme feeling now that none of our loved ones care enough to help us! All we want is to have our wedding before we move, get Sean right for his son, and successfully move to Hawaii, to start a new life together! Start fresh! Our wedding is September 16, 2016 and we are worried that we are going to have to cancel it. We have tried to get a $5000 loan but because we tried to make a positive life move in November, the loan got denied. In November we made the decision to go to a dealership and buy a new car to help build credit, well the loan company hasn't reported our on time payments since March, so to a bank it looks like no payments are being made. I feel like this message is kind of a jumbled mess im sorry! but I don't know where else to turn, without just canceling everything and giving up, we have been trying so hard for so long and we are getting no where, I know you don't know us but we are good hard working people who just want to live a happy successfully life together! Thank you for taking the time to read this!