THE VIDEO ABOVE IS MY VICTIM IMPACT STATEMENT THAT WAS PLAYED ON JUNE 13TH AT THE CRIMINAL SENTENCING
As a result of the assaults and abuse I experienced in my
romantic and business relationship with Dr. Nima Rahmany, I have spent my life savings
on medical, mental health, and legal costs as well as the costs of
daily living. I have also had to file bankruptcy, move in with my
family and I currently have a disability application pending.
I have not yet been able to return to work in any capacity that
would provide enough income to cover my basic expenses, medical
costs, mental health costs plus legal fees.
On June 13th, 2022 my abuser took a plea deal and pled guilty to 2 counts of assault. He was originally arrested on 5 charges. The judge sentenced him to 12 months probation with a conditional discharge which means he will have no criminal record.
There is no restitution provided to the victim by the criminal justice system despite a conviction.
My only recourse is to seek a division of the family assets as
well as spousal support in family court, and damages for my injuries
and lost wages in civil court.
Family lawyers do not take cases on contingency.
I do not qualify for the legal support resources available
because I do not have children with my abuser. Legal Aid & RISE
in BC only offer support with protection orders and child support
& custody concerns or if you are willing to represent yourself
in court.
I cannot imagine having to face my abuser in court as my own
representation and engage with him in a way that is sure to mimic
and trigger the emotional, financial and psychological abuse I experienced.
So as a result of the conclusion of the criminal proceedings and
my ability to now speak out publicly, I am asking for your support
in the form of a financial donation.
I have started an organization called the Domestic Violence
Victim’s Alliance (DVVA) which focuses on raising money to support
survivors like me with their medical, mental health and legal fees.
In the meantime, I have been asking people in my community to
donate items they no longer want or use to me to sell on facebook
marketplace, at my local farmers market and at garage sales that I
host at my home.
While I have been able to raise some money this way (when I am
well enough to do so) it is not nearly enough fast enough.
Those who know me know that I am a fiercely resourceful, driven
and independent Woman who, prior to experiencing intimate partner
terrorism, had already overcome many of life’s challenging
circumstances. I have spent years fighting for women’s rights and
human rights both in the sex work trade and as a member of the
LGBTQ+ community.
My desire is that with your help I can fight for what is
rightfully mine, regain my health, rebuild my career, and return to
my work in activism with a renewed sense of faith in humanity and a
fire like never before.
I also hope to set a precedent in the court systems and in the
media with my cases so that other victims of domestic violence who
come after me will be taken seriously, treated respectfully and be
FULLY provided the actual supports necessary to
hold their abusers accountable AND heal from the trauma AND rebuild
their life.
Thank you in advance for your support,
Amanda Kroetsch
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This design is where it all started - I saw some of Hailee's
work online and asked if she could create some "Pussy
Fringe" earrings and HERE THEY ARE!!! I am in LOVE!!
These will be made to order and will take 30 days before
shipping so 4-6 weeks.
"Hello! I’m Hailee Hansen, owner and operator of
ScorpioSunGoods! I started beading back in 2020 when my mental
health took a decline. My best-friend insisted I needed a hobby. I
needed something to calm my mind. She taught me how to bead and I
picked it up so naturally. Beading and jewelry making has been my
natural antidepressant. The only thing that shuts my, forever
thinking, mind up. I stepped away from corporate America in 2020 so
once I discovered the passion for this new venture, I took off
running. I became a licensed vendor when my local airport inquired
about having my earrings sold in their gift shop. I sold two
collections that summer. Over the last two years my artwork has
brought me into contact with so many amazing people. They’ve
entrusted me to bring their visions to life through my jewelry. I’ve
now joined the work force again, full time, after two years but look
forward to still creating beautiful, jewelry for any occasions."
It is my pleasure to collaborate with Tahltan Two-Spirit artist
Ohnala of BeadsbyOhnala to offer you these beautiful
Canadian Indigenous Handmade earrings as a thank you for your donation.
These
PURPLE PUSSIES
have been created for Domestic Violence Awareness
Month - October.
Little did I know that my journey healing from the impacts of
Domestic Violence would also include stepping into my bloodline and
not only embracing but falling in LOVE with the medicine and magic
available. Beading, among many other indigenous medicines, traditions
and art forms, have become some of the most potent tools in my
self-care toolbox.
By making a donation to my fundraiser you will not only be
helping me but also supporting Ohnala.
"My colonial name is Theresa McLean, and my Indigenous name
is Ohnala. I am from the Tahltan Nation, which is in Northern B.C
“Canada”. I started BeadsbyOhnala about two years ago. My grandma
taught me how to bead when I was small and I picked it up again as I
started on my reconnection/healing journey. There is a saying in the
Indigenous communities “Beading is medicine”, and I truly believe
that. I pour my heart and soul into everything I make. I am as
environmentally friendly as I can be. My beading materials are found
mostly from thrift stores ( not the hoops or posts).
Meduh for looking at my work."
It is my pleasure to collaborate with Tahltan Two-Spirit artist
Ohnala of BeadsbyOhnala
to offer you these beautiful Canadian Indigenous Handmade earrings as
a thank you for your donation.
Little did I know that my journey healing from the impacts of
Domestic Violence would also include stepping into my bloodline and
not only embracing but falling in LOVE with the medicine and magic
available. Beading, among many other indigenous medicines, traditions
and art forms, have become some of the most potent tools in my
self-care toolbox.
By making a donation to my fundraiser you will not only be
helping me but also supporting Ohnala.
"My colonial name is Theresa McLean, and my Indigenous name
is Ohnala. I am from the Tahltan Nation, which is in Northern B.C
“Canada”. I started BeadsbyOhnala about two years ago. My grandma
taught me how to bead when I was small and I picked it up again as I
started on my reconnection/healing journey. There is a saying in the
Indigenous communities “Beading is medicine”, and I truly believe
that. I pour my heart and soul into everything I make. I am as
environmentally friendly as I can be. My beading materials are found
mostly from thrift stores ( not the hoops or posts).
Meduh for looking at my work."
It is my pleasure to collaborate with Tahltan Two-Spirit artist
Ohnala of BeadsbyOhnala
to offer you these beautiful Canadian Indigenous Handmade earrings as
a thank you for your donation.
Little did I know that my journey healing from the impacts of
Domestic Violence would also include stepping into my bloodline and
not only embracing but falling in LOVE with the medicine and magic
available. Beading, among many other indigenous medicines, traditions
and art forms, have become some of the most potent tools in my
self-care toolbox.
By making a donation to my fundraiser you will not only be
helping me but also supporting Ohnala.
"My colonial name is Theresa McLean, and my Indigenous name is Ohnala. I am from the Tahltan Nation, which is in Northern B.C “Canada”. I started BeadsbyOhnala about two years ago. My grandma taught me how to bead when I was small and I picked it up again as I started on my reconnection/healing journey. There is a saying in the Indigenous communities “Beading is medicine”, and I truly believe that. I pour my heart and soul into everything I make. I am as environmentally friendly as I can be. My beading materials are found mostly from thrift stores ( not the hoops or posts). Meduh for looking at my work."
It is my pleasure to collaborate with Tahltan Two-Spirit artist
Ohnala of BeadsbyOhnala
to offer you these beautiful Canadian Indigenous Handmade earrings as
a thank you for your donation.
Little did I know that my journey healing from the impacts of
Domestic Violence would also include stepping into my bloodline and
not only embracing but falling in LOVE with the medicine and magic
available. Beading, among many other indigenous medicines, traditions
and art forms, have become some of the most potent tools in my
self-care toolbox.
By making a donation to my fundraiser you will not only be
helping me but also supporting Ohnala.
"My colonial name is Theresa McLean, and my Indigenous name
is Ohnala. I am from the Tahltan Nation, which is in Northern B.C
“Canada”. I started BeadsbyOhnala about two years ago. My grandma
taught me how to bead when I was small and I picked it up again as I
started on my reconnection/healing journey. There is a saying in the
Indigenous communities “Beading is medicine”, and I truly believe
that. I pour my heart and soul into everything I make. I am as
environmentally friendly as I can be. My beading materials are found
mostly from thrift stores ( not the hoops or posts).
Meduh for looking at my work."
It is my pleasure to collaborate with Tahltan Two-Spirit artist
Ohnala of BeadsbyOhnala
to offer you these beautiful Canadian Indigenous Handmade earrings as
a thank you for your donation.
Little did I know that my journey healing from the impacts of
Domestic Violence would also include stepping into my bloodline and
not only embracing but falling in LOVE with the medicine and magic
available. Beading, among many other indigenous medicines, traditions
and art forms, have become some of the most potent tools in my
self-care toolbox.
By making a donation to my fundraiser you will not only be
helping me but also supporting Ohnala.
"My colonial name is Theresa McLean, and my Indigenous name
is Ohnala. I am from the Tahltan Nation, which is in Northern B.C
“Canada”. I started BeadsbyOhnala about two years ago. My grandma
taught me how to bead when I was small and I picked it up again as I
started on my reconnection/healing journey. There is a saying in the
Indigenous communities “Beading is medicine”, and I truly believe
that. I pour my heart and soul into everything I make. I am as
environmentally friendly as I can be. My beading materials are found
mostly from thrift stores ( not the hoops or posts).
Meduh for looking at my work."
Mermaid Magic 2"
It is my pleasure to collaborate with Tahltan Two-Spirit
artist
Ohnala
of
BeadsbyOhnala
to offer you these beautiful Canadian Indigenous
Handmade earrings as a thank you for your donation.
Little did I know that my journey healing from the impacts of Domestic Violence would also include stepping into my bloodline and not only embracing but falling in LOVE with the medicine and magic available. Beading, among many other indigenous medicines, traditions and art forms, have become some of the most potent tools in my self-care toolbox.
By making a donation to my fundraiser you will not only be helping me but also supporting Ohnala.
"My colonial name is Theresa McLean, and my Indigenous name is Ohnala. I am from the Tahltan Nation, which is in Northern B.C “Canada”. I started BeadsbyOhnala about two years ago. My grandma taught me how to bead when I was small and I picked it up again as I started on my reconnection/healing journey. There is a saying in the Indigenous communities “Beading is medicine”, and I truly believe that. I pour my heart and soul into everything I make. I am as environmentally friendly as I can be. My beading materials are found mostly from thrift stores ( not the hoops or posts).
Meduh for looking at my work."
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This nourishing perk is being offered by my friend Meaghan.
En-Tea-Os Organic Sample Box - 4 Hand Crafted Teas
(Valued at $75)
Thoughtfully crafted small batch organic herbal teas.
Utilizing her knowledge of Traditional Chinese Medicine, Meaghan
contemplates and carefully crafts each blend of these delightful and
versatile herbal teas, to achieve the most satisfying benefits and balance.
Sample box includes:
My Love’s Bedtime Tea: A subtle nervine that acts
to calm the system utilizing the nourishing effects of Marshmellow
root, chamomile, and rose petals
‘Round the Raspberry Bush: Deep flavour, deep
colour. This red tea is a playful and tart blood tonifier. Raspberry
Leaf, Hibicus, and Nettle form the base to provide you a cup of
tender loving care with a twist. Enjoy hot or cold.
Fire Walk With Me Ceremonial Summer Tea: Our most
versatile tea blend can be enjoyed multiple ways. Drink it hot or
cold or in three parts. Delight your friends with an ever changing
flavour profile as you walk them through the three part ceremony
with intention or casually over the course of an afternoon visit. St
John’s Wort, Elderflower and a host of other ally herbs come
together to support you, hold you, and walk with you through the
fire.
Wild Oats Summer Tea Lavender Peel: Specifically
crafted to be a summer tea, this blend of Oat tops and linden
flowers with a hint of lavender and lemon is the perfect quench your
thirst, cool you down, revitalize you, and keep your vibes chillin’
in the summer heat. Infuse over night for full feel good benefits to
be enjoyed the next day!
This perk is available by pick-up (if in Vancouver, BC)
or delivery to anywhere in Canada.
WHAT IS PUSSY CHURCH?
Pussy Church is an ONLINE offering that we (Amanda &
Julia) created for Goddesses/Womxn who have already engaged in Pussy
Reclamation work in some form wether with us, on their own or with
others. It is a continuation of the education, concepts, tools,
education and practices that we feature in our L2 6 month Offering.
It is a continuation of Pussy Reclamation with an emphasis on
reclaiming her/our rightful and ancient place in Church, Religion,
Spirituality and all structures and systems that either removed her
or were created with out her.
It is also our response to our Goddesses requests for ...
* More of the trauma-informed, consent based container.
* More opportunities to practice the tools together.
* More time to celebrate in sisterhood.
* More sacred sexuality practices.
* More scheduled self-care.
* More education on the patriarchy, feminism,
and of course all things Pussy!
* And of course MORE SG Amanda & Julia ; )
Some of the juicy topics that we include are:
- Rewriting
Shestory
- Body Love
- Sexual Health, STD & STI
Myths
- Cycles of a Womxn
- Consent, boundaries, Yes’s
& No’s
- Sexual trauma
- Pussy Massage & Vaginal
Acupressure
- Radiant Relationships
- Sacred
Sisterhood
- Anatomy of Orgasm & Pussy
- Hands on Sex Practices
