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I am in desperate need of help paying child support arrears and hiring a lawyer so that I can take my ex wife to court and hopefully get more than a visitation order. I need joint custody so that my rights cannot be trampled.
While I was in the Air Force, stationed in Georgia, my ex wife left me and moved back to California where our families lived. When she left me she told everyone who knew me, and my Commander and First Sergeant lies that I was an abusive, drug using loser.
My family and Commander and First Sergeant believed her, I was ostracized by my family, and shamed by my chain of command. If I had done drugs I would have been kicked out of the Air Force with a dishonorable discharge. They "randomly" tested me for the next 7 months. My Honorable Discharge is proof that I never did drugs. I also never abused my wife or children, and I have 3 court cases trying to get custody of my kids to prove that, if I had my ex wife would have used it against me to prove I shouldn't be able to visit my children.
I need help though, California is notoriously anti-father, they assigned an amount of child support that is unattainable for me at my current work. I am in training to be a General Manager at Chick-Fil-A (after months of unsteady work or unemployment). More than half of my paycheck goes to child support meanwhile it is not even close to how much I am supposed to pay.
I now live in Utah and have tried to get a modification to reflect my pay and they have been slow, telling me it will take 6 months to a year for the change to occur. I need to take my ex wife back to court, she is not honoring the previous visitation order (I have not seen my kids in almost 3 years), and also get my child support modified so that I can actually support myself and my new wife. My wife has a job, but it is not her responsibility to support me but she has to right now because I barely make enough to cover costs of working.
If you will help me I will be eternally grateful. And will use your donation to help my children know they have a father who loves them and just wants to be in their lives.
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