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I would like to tell you my wife's story. She's got her first stroke 6 years ago. She managed to recover and go back to work, however she was not able to performance in her job the way she used to. Meanwhile, we had to leave our own house due to family conflicts and we were forced to move to a flat. My partner couldn't handle this any longer and she got another stroke. It was much more serious than the previous one and the doctors were telling the next 72hrs could have been risky. It was the longest 72hrs in my life. All the phone calls were scaring me, I was thinking I had a call from the hospital and they would have told me the worst news ever in my life. My wife survived in the end, but she will never be the same caring, loving person as she was. She has her consciousness, she can see what it is going on around her. As she says "she is prisoner of her own body". She keeps blaming herself for everything that has happened to us. It is hard for her to think differently. After all these nightmares happened, I had to quit my job and look after my wife, as she was no longer able to look after herself. It was netural for me to take care of her as she is love of my life and my soul. We meant to be together and we will be there for each other forever. Please, let me mention our son, Bence as well. His life is not easy at all either. When my wife got her second stroke, he was only 9 years old at the time. People can only imagine how he must have felt. He couldn't come to the hospital while her mother was there. It was a hard time for all three of us. He had to grow up quickly as after what happened to her mommy, his only grandmother has passed away also. He told me then, " someone must hate us pretty bad". I couldn't really a say a word, my heart was broken into little pieces. By the time, my son started to look after her mother very well and careful. He tries to entertaint her, they try to have fun together. Bence cannot really go anywhere to enjoy his youth. Even, if he can go, he only thinks about her mother staying at home. He should be enjoying his life and be a kid until he can be. Only these two beautiful people and hope keep me still alive. Please help us, if you can. Not for me, but for these two amazing human being who do not deserve this kind of life. Thank you very much!
Szeretnék elmondani néhány dolgot a feleségemről, állapotáról és helyzetéről. Az első stroke-ját 6 éve kapta. Ebből az állapotból még elég szépen felépült de már a munkában nem tudott olyan teljesítményt nyújtani mint előtte.Közben az otthonunkat is el kellett hagyni egy családi konfliktus miatt és albérletbe kényszerültünk. Párom ezt már nehezen viselte és 4 évvel ezelőtt kapott egy agytörzsi agyvérzést.Két ér elpattant az agytörzsben. Mikor elvitték azt mondták hogy a következő 72 óra kritikus lehet-Életem legszörnyűbb 72 órája következett.Minden egyes telefoncsörgés egy tőrdöfés volt a szívembe hogy csak az ne....Végül átvészelte de már sohasem lesz az a törődő,gondos segítőkész anya,feleség barát aki előtte volt.Ahogy Ő mondja saját teste fogja lett.A tudata ép,tiszta, mindennel tisztában van maga körűl. Így a helyzetünket is látja.Sokszor magát hibáztatja és ezt néha elég nehéz kiverni a fejéből.Nekem mikor haza jött a kórházból-közel fél év után-ott kellett hagynom a munkám hogy ápolhassam,gondoskodjak róla.Számomra ez természetes volt hiszen mindig is szerettem és szeretni fogom!Minket nem az eskünk tart össze hanem a lelkünk és egymásért dobogó szívünk.Mikor hazaengedték a kórházból komoly munka volt a felfekvéseit kezelni,etetni a gyomorszondán keresztül vagy pelenkázni.Nem a nehézség miatt hanem mert ilyen kiszolgáltatottnak látom azt akit mindennél jobban szeretek.A felfekvései már elmúltak de a többi sajnos megmaradt.Engedjék meg hogy néhány mondatot szánjak fiamra-Bencére-is.Neki sem könnyű az élete.Feleségem második lerobbanásakor 9 éves volt.Sajnos nem sok jutott neki az édesanyjából,pedig imádtak együtt lenni.A kórházba sokáig nem is jöhetett be,nehezen viselték mind a ketten.Gyorsan fel kellett nőnie. Hiszen anyukája szörnyű betegsége után nem sokkal elvesztette egyetlen nagymamáját is.Mondta is hogy valaki nagyon nem szeret minket.Erre nem nagyon lehet mit mondani.Idővel egyre többet segített,adott anyának inni,enni.Odaül mellé és szórakoztatja ahogy csak tudja.Csak neki nem jut semmi szórakozás.Nyaralás esélytelen.Moziban idén voltunk egy kedves ismerősünk segítségével.De akárhányszor vagyunk valahol egy idő után ránk szakad a lelkiismeret furdalás hogy mi itt vagy ott vagyunk jól érezzük magunkat míg anya otthon fekszik.Én egyedül ezért nem megyek sehova mert mindig mar a kétség.Ráadásul már a gyerek is így gondolkodik és ez nem jó.Legyen gyerek amíg lehet.Ráér felnőni még.Engem csak az tart még életben hogy ők vannak,hogy van feladatom amiért ki kell tartanom.Bár egyre nehezebb.Kérem amennyire módunkban áll segítsenek!Ne rajtam hanem ezen a két csodálatos emberen akik nem ezt érdemelték,érdemlik az élettől.Köszönöm,köszönjük!
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